Pregnancy Update

I honestly feel like I was just announcing I was pregnant! Where does the time go? It has really flown by and I can’t believe that in mere weeks we will be a family of 5. I just wanted to offer you a quick update on our life as we prepare for this joyous event.

Our flight back was the last time I could fly. I am officially stationary the rest of my pregnancy. My mother-in-law will be flying in a few days before my due date so that my husband and I can hopefully have a weekend away before the baby comes. We are really hoping that baby stays! Of course, as many of you know babies have a mind of their own so we will see what happens. We won’t be booking any hotels till that morning. My husband and I have never spent a night together apart from our kids. That is kind of crazy, right? It is very difficult to accomplish without family nearby.

We have decided not to sell our house (for now). Honestly, it felt like too much change at one time. As many of you know selling and moving are a lot of work and accomplishing this while pregnant felt like too much. Also, my husband’s office isn’t moving untill next year. Wells’ loves his preschool and to continue on there and not have to find a new one was such a stress relief. He will get another year with his best friend. We will see what happens in the future but right now I feel content with the decision. I am making it more of my goal to just take life day by day. It is so much less stressful!

How am I doing with pregnancy? This pregnancy is a lot harder than the last two. I thought this would get easier! It is so drastically different and my body is not handling well how close together these two pregnancies are. Isla and her sister will be 20 months apart! I am in a lot of pain physically and not able to be as active as I like to. I am trying to free myself of that mom guilt of not being able to do as much with the kids. It is so easy to feel that guilt but sometimes you have to accept the limitations of your body. I go to my physical therapist about once a week and my husband is great about helping me with my exercises. I just keep telling myself that it will all be worth it and I will of course forget about all this pain. It always happens, otherwise how would I be on my third kid?!

This is what is currently is going on in our lives. Also, I’m trying to figure out summer camps for Wellington and my friend is throwing me a shower in a few weeks. I am happy to get together with all the amazing moms I know. Being surrounded by exemplar moms makes all the difference in my life. I hope you all have a group of women to encourage you and the bonus is sometimes their kids turn into your children’s best friends!

Are you pregnant? How is yours going? I would love to hear all about when your baby is due and how you are handling pregnancy! Please email or comment below. We can get through this together!

Instagram

I am now on Instagram! I hope you will follow me. I posted a few pictures from our travels to California last week and will be doing the same for Hawaii. We leave today so be sure to be on the hunt for some pictures from Kauai. I would love any comments or suggestions on where to eat or visit while we are on the island. It is currently raining here in Seattle so we are very excited to disembark on this trip and our last vacation as a family of four. I will be posting periodically through vacation. You can see my latest grams in the sidebar.

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"Mom, is it not customary to get olives all over your hair at Napa wineries." #napawithkids #philandteds

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Palo Alto Zoo on another sunny California day! #californiasun #paloaltozoo

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Big Announcement

Hopefully from the picture you were able to guess that we will be welcoming baby number three in April of 2015! The baby should be here around the end of April. None of my babies have been born early so I’m not too concerned about that. We are excited to welcome a third. Once we found out, we realized we will having three under three! Kind of crazy! It will definitely be a huge transition especially for Isla. She will have a sibling only 20 months apart in age.

As the months go on I will be posting all about new baby and mama products and preparing for number three. We have learned so much about baby products through the years. We have sold quite a few things because we have learned what is really needed and areas that are important to invest in.

I hope you will all keep reading and join us on this roller coaster journey. There will be a lot of change in 2015!

Finding the laughter in the day-to-day

Being the mother of a 3 year old is hard! I thought the two’s were supposed to be terrible, that was until I met the three’s. Wells can use more words and with them it is usually to express the opposite of anything I say. Luckily, the bright side of this age and expanded vocabulary happens to be the funny things they say on a daily basis. I thought I would share this interaction between my husband and son:

Husband is walking out of the bathroom after helping him onto the potty and accidentally turns the light off:

Wells: Turn the light back on! My poop is scared of the dark!

That is when we break into laughter and furiously write it down so we don’t forget. These moments and times of laughter need to be cherished and held onto especially when the next day they throw a tantrum and you are wondering how you will make it till dinner. Parenting is a lot like a roller coaster and I would like to keep focused on the laughter.

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Isla and Wells kissing through the patio door.

I hope this will be an encouragement to remember that this time is fleeting so focus on the good. I want to hold onto it so much that I’ve asked my husband to make a book of all the Wellington phrases for my Christmas presents (hint, hint)! I hope you will all try to find the joy and laughter. What are some funny things your child has said?

Dreams

Once we become mothers we often have so many dreams revolving around our children. We dream they will grow up become doctors, astronauts, or in my case just enough to pee on the potty. Often times our lives and emotions become so wrapped up in our children we lose sight of ourselves. We forget that before we became mothers we were women with our own hopes and dreams.

This happened to me when I became a stay-at-home mom. I love my job as a mom and wouldn’t trade these precious years for anything, but I also have dreams. Moving to Europe (hopefully in the not too distance future) and traveling the world are big dreams, and I am accomplishing another as we speak. I am writing this blog and you are reading it. That is a dream being fulfilled.

Whether you are a working mom, city mom, or a stay at home mom, don’t forget to have dreams for yourself. These can be big dreams or little dreams, but the important thing is to make them happen and not let them just slip away.

Pinterest

I am now on Pinterest! I hope you will come check out my different boards. I plan to put ones for the kids birthdays, nursery, recipe and a whole other boards on there. Bear with me as I learn the ropes, these two kids keep me quite busy!

For starting out, I’m generating ideas for Wellington’s 3rd birthday. I am going with a train theme as he is obsessed with them. I am going for a modern, vintage theme. We will see how it turns out but I am sure if there is just one picture of a train my son will be happy.

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